Monday, October 13, 2014

New Dad Finances: Part 1



Let’s start off with the hardest part of the adjustment to fatherhood for most young guys:  money.  Not only can you expect your monthly budget to increase (not as drastically as you might think, but we’ll get to that in a moment), but there’s also the cost of care for mom and baby, and delivery costs.  I’ll walk you through some of my lessons learned from the beginning, from finding out you are expecting, to managing the myriad of medical bills associated with the delivery.  

Step 1:  So you’re expecting?

I’m going to assume that you have health insurance for you and your wife.  If you don’t, then get some.  The primary cause of bankruptcy tends to be lack of health insurance.  Don’t get caught in that trap.  If your employer doesn’t offer health insurance, then by all means find a new employer.  That being said, I suggest calling your health insurance provider and asking them for the specifics:  what’s the most you would be expected to pay for the delivery of a child, whether it’s a normal (vaginal) or a cesarean delivery?  What are your deductibles?  Also, ask if there is anything that you need to do for the insurance company associated with the delivery.  This is important. Many insurance companies require you to call them within 24 – 48 hours of the hospital admission to “pre-certify” your delivery.  It’s a bunch of insurance mumbo-jumbo, but what it means on your end is that if you don’t give them that call, in the time frame that they require, they could penalize you an extra $500 or so.  Considering that the day you get that “It’s time!” scream of panic from your wife you will already be very distracted, I suggest writing down the phone number for your insurance company, any case number they give you, and the time frame in which they require you to call on a piece of paper.  Put that piece of paper in the hospital bag that your wife has prepared for her delivery.  This will make it very convenient when you remember, about three hours after the delivery and the fog settles, that you were supposed to call your insurance company.  You’ll have the numbers on hand.  

Step 2: Pick your hospital

 This may be already decided for you depending on your insurance or your doctor, but in the event you have options, choose wisely.  Browse the hospital’s website for their billing department.  Look for anything along the lines of financial assistance or charity care program.  They have different names at different hospitals, but most hospitals do offer some kind of discount to the parents who qualify for it based on your income levels.  You might think you make too much, but you’d be surprised.  Even if you only qualify for a 25% discount, that could be several thousand dollars that you wouldn’t have to pay.  If you don’t find anything online about this, call their billing department and ask them if they offer any kind of financial assistance program.  This could be the best financial call you make throughout the entire pregnancy.  I was able to save over $5,000 with my first child by doing just this.   


Step 3:  Call the Doctor’s Billing Department

Do this early on in the pregnancy.  Ask them to estimate your after-insurance costs that you will be responsible for after all is said and done.  Don’t be surprised if this number is several hundred dollars.  Ask them if they allow you to start paying monthly payments on this now.  Some do, some don’t, but this will help you out a lot when your child is born.  This could be $500 that you don’t have to worry about paying later, after all of the other medical bills come in.  Remember, you’ll have to pay bills from the hospital, the doctor, and the anesthesiologist.  None of these will be small bills.  If you can get a head start now, then you’ll be much better off.  If the doctor’s office doesn’t do this kind of thing, then start setting aside roughly $75 each month to cover this upcoming bill.  You’ll be very glad you did, trust me.  

In Part 2, we'll look at how to manage the medical bills associated with becoming a New Dad. 

 

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